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Learn to flirt
Learn to flirt
While checking the real meaning of flirting in many dictionaries none could beat the Wikipedia definition that I meant in the above headline, it defines flirting as a social and sometimes sexual activity involving verbal or written communication as well as body language by one person to another, either to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person, or if done playfully, for amusement. In most cultures, it is socially disapproved for a person to make explicit sexual advances in public, or in private to someone not romantically acquainted, but indirect or suggestive advances (i.e. flirting) may at times be considered acceptable.
The problem with flirting is that its all about gambling, because you try it on a total stranger who you don’t know their reactions , in some quarters flirting could even land you in jail as it could be interpreted as sexual harassment, this I thing is a better reason to learn if you are flirting with the right person, and if any of these steps backfires, please don’t persist, just drop it and try the next train! Winking is the best start Winking is something that is seen by most people as a funny gesture and infact even if the person doesn’t return your wink, they will at least smile and this too is a good start up point.
The other advantage that winking has is that you can even pretend that you were actually not winking at this particular person, or something has fallen into your eyes(this should be done if you see that you are winking at a stature like face)! Maintain eye contact One thing women find creepy in men is when a guy makes eye contact with a woman without ever blinking, you want to focus on making the right kind of eye contact.
Avoid holding her eyes as a captive, nay when you make the eye contact drop your gaze to the other parts of her body, look at her/his lips, bust/chest lightly before returning your gaze to her/his eyes. Use your eyes in a soft, relaxed gaze that allows you to take more of her/him, and let you eye contact be inviting, have you ever smiled with your eyes? Close the private space between you this is especially if you are a man and flirting with a woman, women have a private space of about a meter from their body, if you can manage to penetrate this private area of theirs then you are on the right track, you can do this by trying to whisper something in their ears, if they allow you then brother go to the next tip below! Touch her hair A survey has been done and yours truly has always tried it out, and that is , if a woman lets you touch her hair/head, then you should know that you are almost there.
I don’t know how this is related to them allowing you to be intimate with them, but I personally thing that it is as how of trust that they be bestowing upon you, and please compliment their hair and see the lift in spirit they will have. Sense of Humor is a must. The good news is that there is no such thing as a good or a bad sense of humor. In other words, as long as you can laugh at yourself and with other people, you should have no trouble learning how to impress someone afterwards.
In a nutshell, all that people really want at the end of the day is somebody who isn’t boring and somebody that they can actually have fun with. Do not hang around too much. If you really want to know how to flirt with someone and make him/her like you, then you have to make sure s/he stays intrigued and curious when it comes to you. In other words, remain as mysterious as possible.
This will definitely make him/her want you more. Do not try too hard. Lastly…..You have tried one or most of the above tips and things are not working , please just drop it because the next thing will be police, in fact there is no bigger turn off that showing signs of desperation, and as I said it at the beginning, back your bags and wait for the next train.
Professional flirt
While checking the real meaning of ‘flirting’ in many dictionaries none could fit the Wikipedia definition that I meant in the above headline, it defines flirting as a social and sometimes sexual activity involving verbal or written communication as well as body language by one person to another, either to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person, or if done playfully, for amusement. In most cultures, it is socially disapproved for a person to make explicit sexual advances in public, or in private to someone not romantically acquainted, but indirect or suggestive advances (i.e. flirting) may at times be considered acceptable.
The problem with flirting is that its all about gambling , because you try it on a total stranger who you don’t know their reactions , in some quarters flirting could even land you in jail as it could be interpreted as sexual harassment, this I thing is a better reason to learn if you are flirting with the right person, and if any of these steps backfires, please don’t persist, just drop it and try the next train! Winking is the best start Winking is something that is seen by most people as a funny gesture and infact even if the person doesn’t return your wink, they will at least smile and this too is a good start up point.
The other advantage that winking has is that you can even pretend that you were actually not winking at this particular person, or something has fallen into your eyes(this should be done if you see that you are winking at a stature like face)! Maintain eye contact One thing women find creepy in men is when a guy makes eye contact with a woman without ever blinking, you want to focus on making the right kind of eye contact.
Avoid holding her eyes as a captive, nay when you make the eye contact drop your gaze to the other parts of her body, look at her/his lips, bust/chest lightly before returning your gaze to her/his eyes. Use your eyes in a soft, relaxed gaze that allows you to take more of her/him, and let you eye contact be inviting, have you ever smiled with your eyes?
Close the private space between you
This is especially if you are a man and flirting with a woman, women have a private space of about a meter from their body, if you can manage to penetrate this private area of theirs then you are on the right track, you can do this by trying to whisper something in their ears, if they allow you then brother go to the next tip below! Touch her hair A survey has been done and yours truly has always tried it out, and that is , if a woman lets you touch her hair/head, then you should know that you are almost there.
I don’t know how this is related to them allowing you to be intimate with them, but I personally thing that it is as how of trust that they be bestowing upon you, and please compliment their hair and see the lift in spirit they will have. Sense of Humor is a must. The good news is that there is no such thing as a good or a bad sense of humor. In other words, as long as you can laugh at yourself and with other people, you should have no trouble learning how to impress someone afterwards.
In a nutshell, all that people really want at the end of the day is somebody who isn’t boring and somebody that they can actually have fun with. Do not hang around too much. If you really want to know how to flirt with someone and make him/her like you, then you have to make sure s/he stays intrigued and curious when it comes to you. In other words, remain as mysterious as possible.
This will definitely make him/her want you more. Do not try too hard. Lastly…..You have tried one or most of the above tips and things are not working , please just drop it because the next thing will be police, in fact there is no bigger turn off that showing signs of desperation, and as I said it at the beginning, back your bags and wait for the next train..
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